What are the best sex positions?

You never would have thought it possible back in the days when you were dry-humping every pillow in sight. Sex has become kind of…boring. You do the same thing every time and while it is still fun, you often end up thinking something like, “I’d have just as soon rubbed one off and then watched the new season of White Lotus.”

If that sounds familiar, you’re certainly not alone. It is extremely common for people—particularly long-term couples—to get bored with sex.

Remember that variety is the spice of life. In this article, we take a look at how to keep things spicy. What are the best sex positions? Read on to find out.

Don't Turn Your Life Into a Porn Video

In your average ten-minute porn video, the couple might change position ten times. That level of athleticism--admirable though it might be--is not required here. You're free to give it a try if you have the stamina but remember that not everything you see on Pornhub is real. Actually, almost none of it is.

Here's what you do want to do: Communicate your interests before the encounter begins. Make sure your partner is comfortable trying what you'd like. Being open about desires creates trust and sets realistic expectations.

Allow for an adjustment period with new positions. Sex is a skill just like anything else. You won't find your rhythm right away with a new position. That's ok. Practice helps partners learn what works for their unique bodies and preferences.

The key to sexual exploration is that you pursue it with respect. Take time to learn together. Focus on mutual comfort and pleasure rather than performance. Real intimacy often looks very different from staged entertainment.

Remember that adult films are fantasy, not instruction manuals. They're designed for viewers, not participants. Natural, comfortable encounters that respect both partners' limits create better experiences than trying to recreate unrealistic scenarios.

The Corkscrew

The corkscrew position involves the receiver laying out on the edge of the bed in an almost lounging position. The thruster comes from behind in a standing position where they can enter, thrust, or rub as is seen fit. This position is most comfortable for the thruster, who experiences a tighter sensation around--well. Around whatever they are thrusting.

The receiver lies with one leg raised, creating a twisted torso position that gives this move its name. The angle provides unique sensations for both partners. The standing partner has control over depth and rhythm.

This position works well for couples of different heights since the bed provides support and elevation. Pillows can help adjust angles for maximum comfort. The receiver can easily shift position to find what feels best.

The standing partner gets the benefit of leverage and control. The receiving partner can relax into a comfortable position without supporting their weight. Both get the advantage of a novel angle that's less common than traditional positions.

Face-to-Face

A nice romantic position. The thruster sits on the edge of the bed. The receiver sits directly on their lap. It's very intimate. Equally comfortable for both participants. Also easy to get into a good rhythm.

This position allows partners to maintain eye contact and share kisses. The closeness creates opportunities for additional intimacy through touching, embracing, or whispering. Both partners can easily communicate through words or body language.

The receiver has control over depth and movement while the thruster provides stability and support. Both can use their hands freely to enhance the experience. The position works well for partners of different heights or body types.

Doggy Style

A less than flattering name for a crowd-pleasing position. One person gets on all fours. Approaching from the back, the other enters/thrusts/rubs as the situation requires. The thruster generally experiences a tighter sensation while the receiver gets stimulated in areas of the genitalia that aren't easily reached in other positions.

Both partners can adjust their posture to find optimal angles. Pillows under the knees or supporting arms can increase comfort. The receiving partner might prefer lowering their chest to the bed while keeping their hips raised.

This position allows deep stimulation and easy access to erogenous zones. The thruster can easily vary speed and depth. The receiver maintains some control through hip movements and positioning.

Make Like a Pretzel

The person on the receiving end lies on their side. The thrusting participant straddles between their legs from a kneeling position. It's a little awkward getting into this spot but it actually produces a similar effect to doggy style but with more intimacy because you can look your partner in the face while you do it.

Getting into position takes some coordination. The receiver lies sideways while lifting their top leg. The thruster kneels between the receiver's legs, straddling the lower leg while positioning near the raised one.

Despite the initial setup challenges, this position offers unique benefits. Partners maintain eye contact and physical closeness while accessing deeper angles. The side-lying position creates interesting sensations for both participants.

69

When you're a twelve-year-old boy writing nonsense with a permanent marker on the bathroom wall, this is quite possibly the funniest word in existence. The fixation with 69 does not wane with age but it does become much more serious.

You know how it works--two partners performing oral sex on one another at the same time. It's great for the obvious, pleasurable reasons, but also because it's generous. Everyone gets what they want.

For many people in particular, oral sex is often the most pleasurable part of the experience. Why not let it take center stage? This position emphasizes mutual pleasure and reciprocation. Both partners give and receive simultaneously.

Communication remains important. Different heights or body types might require adjustments for comfort. Positioning with pillows can help both partners find comfortable angles. Some couples prefer side-by-side rather than top-and-bottom alignment.

The focus on mutual pleasure makes this position especially intimate. It requires trust, comfort, and attention to your partner's responses. Like any sexual activity, enthusiasm and consideration for your partner's comfort create the best experience.

What Are the Best Sex Positions?

The best sex positions are extremely subject to circumstances. Missionary, in all its blandness, can be explosive with the right partner. It's important to understand that so many of the things we focus on the most in sex--appearance, position, etc. are ultimately only peripheral details.

How much you trust your partner, what you feel for them, how enthusiastic they are about the sex can all be at least as important, if not more so, than in what manner of pretzel you've managed to get yourself tangled up in. Chemistry and connection often matter more than technical complexity.

Comfort and communication create better experiences than acrobatics. Partners who feel safe expressing their needs and responding to feedback will have more satisfying encounters. The "best" position is one where both partners feel confident and comfortable.

Physical compatibility also plays a role. Height differences, flexibility levels, and any mobility limitations affect which positions work best. What's amazing for one couple might be awkward or impractical for another.

Trust and enthusiasm turn simple positions into memorable experiences. Focus less on copying complicated poses and more on finding what feels natural and pleasurable for both partners.

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