How to Not Come as Fast

You get excited. The moment you've been waiting for all day arrives. Then it's over. Far too fast. Too swift for you. Also probably too fast for your partner. Women, in particular, are uniquely inconvenienced by premature ejaculation. Despite what they might tell you. Your partner

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life: Make Sex Exciting Again

It's crazy to arrive at a point in your life where sex feels bland and boring. Once the only thing you could think about, now it's almost akin to a chore. The phrase "maintenance sex" is thrown around, and that sounds about right to

How to Be Dominant in Bed: Complete Guide

To be dominant in bed is not an adjective so much as it is a lifestyle. Doms exist in the wider umbrella of BDSM behavior. They are typically, though not exclusively, women, and their role is to shape the narrative of the encounter within predefined limits set by both parties.

How to Be a Good Submissive

In the world of kink, submissive play is one of the most popular and accessible sexual subcategories that a person can explore. The nice thing about engaging in the dom/sub dynamic is that there is already existing culture around both categories of behavior. This doesn't mean there

What is Self Bondage?

You know what they say. If you can’t play with your friends play with yourself. Does that extend to bondage? Well, maybe it can. Self-bondage does require a certain level of caution. Any BDSM activity can be risky when precautions aren’t taken seriously. Make that doubly true for

Why Do Girls Reject Me?

If most of your contact with boob came when you were a breastfeeding infant it can feel like a pretty insurmountable problem. You can take this one of two ways. Allow frustration turn into resentment. Allow resentment to turn you into an incel. Oh, that’s not what you want?

How to Have More Wet Dreams

That’s not a question Google gets very often—and that guy has seen everything. Wet dreams are a fact of life, ok, but one that most people experience with great embarrassment. They conceal the evidence of their…emission with a hasty midnight trip to the laundry room. And here’

How To Stop Being An Incel

You went online and wound up in a bitter place. Hey, it happens. The incel movement attracts young people by the legions because it has an attractive message to the right sort of person. No, you aren't having sex. But it isn't your fault. The system

Is Andrew Tate an Incel?

Some people call him the "king of toxic masculinity." Andrew Tate began his career as a kickboxer but truly rose to fame as an influencer in the "manosphere" community.  For those lucky enough not to know what that means, the manosphere is an interconnected online ecosystem

What is a Soft Dom? Explained.

At a BDSM conference, the soft doms are the ones that don’t smell like leather. That’s a joke. Kind of. In a world of kinks that can get pretty extreme this one barely registers on the Richter scale. Soft doms know what they want, but they’re gentle

How to Enjoy a Degrading Kink 101

Here's something the people sitting in the cubicle at work next to you would never guess: In bed, the very best thing a partner could say to you would be something like this. "My, what a disgusting little cock you have."  Or maybe you don'

How to Use a Vibrator: The Complete Guide

Masturbation is your opportunity to discover what you enjoy in bed. Not only is it..well. Just a lovely way to spend the afternoon—but it can also serve as field research. Learn what gets your motor running and pass that information along to a partner.  Vibrators are simple but